1 I Am Sorry; Life is not a mistake

We say it too much. People think that it's good word to say; Sorry. I don't think so. At least I feel this life is not a mistake at all. Sorry for what? doing mistake is part of our learning process. If we never make one, or even a lot of mistakes, we won't make progress in our life. Yes, all of us make mistakes all of times along our journey in this life; take a wrong direction, have sex with a wrong person, doing stupid things and all.

No regret, just live this life as we desire. Some people believe we have no choice after-all, life is predestine, like a history, no one can change a thing, not the past nor the future. Some others believe that people can change and have freewill. Whatever the case, we need to believe that we are free. We don't really know the truth but our feeling change everything. We feel sorry because we do not enjoy what we do, whatever it is.

Most of the time, people feel sorry because of other people. When we sing (beautifully or not) and many people are very happy, give applause, give compliment, then we feel OK, then we feel happy. The very same case, when we sing (the same song, beautifully or not) and yet many people are very unhappy, they look disgust, they criticize us, then we feel not OK, we feel sorry. If our happiness is depend on other people, it is so fragile and miserable. Socrates teach us how to be confident as we are, but many people, me include, will always look at other people face to know how they respond and what is their opinion. It's so miserable indeed.