0 Individu Vs Sosial

 Sebelum menjadi makhluk sosial, manusia adalah makhluk individu yang memiliki kemampuan dan keunikan masing-masing. Immanuel Kant dalam The Critic of Pure Reason menyebutkan bahwa setiap manusia adalah akhir/tujuan  dirinya sendiri, tidak boleh hanya dijadikan alat untuk akhir/tujuan orang lain atau kelompok. 

Orang yang ukuran kakinya 42 akan nyaman memakai sepatu ukuran 42, bisa dipaksa memakai ukuran 41 atau 43 tapi tidak akan nyaman. Kadang masyarakat memaksa individu untuk menjadi sama, hanya karena seluruh anggota tim memakai ukuran 45, diwajibkan semua memakai 45, yang tidak setuju dianggap semaunya sendiri, ngeyel. Di sini mulai muncul konflik, memaksakan menjadi sama adalah "non solution to non problem". Pikiran kritis dan jernih itu jarang ada di masyarakat, karena itu Socrates dihukum mati, Spinoza dilaknat dan dikucilkan. 

Henry David Thoreau memilih dipenjara daripada membayar pajak yang digunakan untuk perang, tindakannya adalah Civil Disobedience. 

Sebagai individu, saya setuju dengan Thoreau, Kant, dan Socrates. Kewajiban buatan manusia itu tidak ada nilainya dihadapan pikiran jernih dan kritis. 

Nassim Nicholas Thaleb dalam salah satu bukunya menyebutkan bahwa di Inggris makanan kosher/halal mendominasi pasar, 60% dibanding populasi muslim yang hanya 13%, ini disebut non-negotiable minority. Bagi minoritas muslim, tidak bisa ditawar, makanan harus halal, titik, harga mati, siapapun tidak bisa memaksa mereka untuk makan makanan non halal. Saya pun sebagai individu tidak akan bernegosiasi, kaki ukuran 42 akan memakai sepatu 42 apapun kata dunia. Dalam buku berjudul "Dare to be disliked" disebutkan, manusia hanya akan bisa bahagia jika membangun hubungan horisontal bukan vertikal terhadap manusia lain, tidak ada yang boleh sok berkuasa dan memaksa individu seolah ia berada di bawahnya. "Unless one is unconcerned by other people's judgments, has no fear of being disliked by other people, and pays the cost that one might never be recognized, one will never be able to follow through in one's own way of living." (Alfred Adler)

0 either crazy or in love

 don't trust future you,

if you refuse discipline today,

the "future you" will only repeat the same mistake.

there are only two things, 0 & 1

left and right, in and out

your hardship and toil will be

a sweet memory if you 

finally successful,

even if you don't

you won't regret it!

It feels forever, the pain

when over, it's felt like a dream.

will you still work so hard

if you know, you won't make it?

if so, either you are crazy or in love.

0 The Body is The Boss

The Body is The Boss

It's not you want to eat, sleep, pee, sex, your body wants them, you are only the agent, the slave. You can't win fighting your body, what so called free will is the body's will, you can't tell yourself and then do what against the body such as "Today I don't want to sleep and pee," maybe you can, but only for a while, and you will pay a great price and consequences, and won't be long the body takes over everything again.

The mind follows the body, if the body is shut down, the mind shuts down as well. In case a spirit possession, there are no two spirits or minds in one body, there is one and the only, it's the p functional body, no matter the spirit's power, when the body is injected with anastesy liquid, it collapses, the mind shuts down, no spirit survives and takes over the body, the body is always the boss.

To master the mind, master the body, so buddhist monks practice meditation by practicing sitting still, breathing, fasting and so on. The mind will follow.

Young men are hungry for sex, it's the body that hungry not the mind, when the body is still a child, he doesn't want sex whatesoever, when the body is ill or malfunction, he doesn't want sex at all.

Mind and Body problems; depression, fear, loneliness and others.

fear can be caused by low temperature and high corbon dioxide in the brain, the low light also causes many illusion that causes fear. The real problem is the body, can be the brain, gut bacteria, heart problem, bad eye condition or other part of the body, Oliver sack wrote many books about this topic. 

The problem of happiness.

Whether you are happy or suffer, it related to your body, you just misread and misunderstood the fact. You feel so angry knowing your partner cheating, so sad hearing your loved one gets ill or die, and you feel accordingly. With anger you feel a great energy to explode, with sadness you lose energy and feel weak. Your mind react differently in different body condition, whether at the time your body is hungry or full, warm or cold, tired or relax, and so on. Therefore exercise the body can cure depression, for example swimming or running. When you feel down, unhappy and depress, don't go to a doctor or friend, go swimming or running, the body cures the mind because the body is the boss and always will be.

The last words, mind is the body's function, it follows the body, take care of your body and your mind will be happy and powerful. knowledge is memory, is brain things, you make it powerful by reading, it's body thing.