by Nasirun Khan (Notes) on Tuesday, October 11, 2011 at 6:53am
if
i have a beautiful girl friend, if i have a nice expensive car, if i
win a competition, if i have more than common people have.....all of
that give me validation. people recognize me. my families, my friends,
validate me, love me more. from this value, since i am more social than
individual creature, my choice is no more my choice anymore. i choose
what i expect to choose, my choice is people choice. i do not have
choices or people will say you are individual egoistic weirdo antisocial
guy. i'm not myself, i'm where i am.
there is an interesting story about transformation. Metamorphosis by Frans Kafka tell us about this. when greg woke up one day in different shape and feature, from nice common social feature become particular special indifidual creature (a cocroach), their families, their friends, society do not validate him anymore. they killed him by refuse him and aleniate him from society.
so i see destiny as social choice rather than individual choice.
there is an interesting story about transformation. Metamorphosis by Frans Kafka tell us about this. when greg woke up one day in different shape and feature, from nice common social feature become particular special indifidual creature (a cocroach), their families, their friends, society do not validate him anymore. they killed him by refuse him and aleniate him from society.
so i see destiny as social choice rather than individual choice.
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