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Minggu, 13 Juni 2021

0 The Consequences

_14.6.2021_ There are a lot of uncertainties in life. It's because a lot of unknown details. What is unknown causes uncertainties. One is always choosing. When he chooses, he depends on his own understanding, even a thief thinks that his action is his best option at the time no matter the reason behind that. The problem is that why most people make the wrong decision most of the time. It is always between two decisions, yes or no. It's a binary system that create the whole new world, computer language. When one says yes to junk food, cola, instant noodles, snacks, games, doing nothing, the consequences are poverty, bad body shape, weakness of body and mind. If one says yes to working hard, meditation, reading, exercise, eating healthy foods, focus, the consequences are fit body and successful career. The combination of yes-no series create the whole world of a person. Most people do not realize that their life is all the decisions he makes. It creates pattern. Realizing this, one can change and shape his/her own destiny. It's a bad faith to believe that the current condition is permanent and unchangeable. If I make a decision starting from today I lift a dumbbell ten thousand times every day religiously, no day off for years, in a year or two, my body shape will change, my strength will change, and my pattern will change. I create my own life whether it concerns to my economic condition, health, relationship, all. There are always unknown details that play roles in the pattern. But it's not significant and can be ignored generally. The focus is to what I can do now. I should not rely on good luck, I should work hard on it with all I got. I used to think that everything was a fate, no matter what I do, it won't change the final result. Now I see that no one can hit the target he doesn't aim at. Random shooting definitely will hit something, not the target. I can only write every day after I make the decision to do it. It applies to everything in life. Now I'm getting married because I made the decision to marry someone and asked her for marriage. In the past I would wait for magical moment that never happened. If I want good body shape, I have to do it myself, no magic can transform me into one. The magic is called, hard work, determination, focus and persistence. What percentage one can get athletic body without intention to do it at all, let it happen naturally? Almost zero. But for the one who aim at it, and do it no matter what, the result is almost one hundred percent. So everything depend on the mindset. What separate people is the habit. It's the series of small decision of yes and no. Successful people take responsibilities on their life. They create their own luck. I can have clean and tidy room if I make one, I can have dirty and messy one as well. It's a hundred percent up to me, not fate nor luck. When dealing with complicated thing people often make no decision. He doesn’t know what to do, and leave it to destiny. It happens all the time. Everything seems so complicated. No one knows how to be rich, happy, peaceful of mind, successful. Rely on hard work alone is never enough. People work hard eight to ten hours every day and get nothing more than just standard minimum income. It's because he becomes a slave for other. He doesn't know how to be free man. No one ever told him how, not their parents nor their teachers. Instead they said, it's fate, destiny, luck. This mindset creates poverty and slavery. One's condition is not a death sentence that can't be altered. Happiness and success are possible for everyone. The conseuences are neutral. They are the natural law that side to no one. If you do this, therefore this will happen. If you do nothing, nothing will happen. Wherever you go, there you are. Very simple concept but people still don't get it. If you turn on the light, it's on, if you turn off the light, it's off. No one is special in the face of nature, it's fair for all. The time is 24 hours a day for a king and 24 hours a day for a slave, all the same. Therefore if one wants to be rich, he needs to find out how and then just do it, make it as his priority. He will get there sooner or later. What is seen as impossible is merely a decision not to try it. It's not impossible for me to be very rich, to have great body shape and health, to be wise and happy. To have a house, one must build one or buy one, not only wish and pray. One should never blame bad luck or anything for his current condition, it's just the consequenses from his own actions in the past. If yesterday I read a book, today I have some memory and new knowlege about it. The connection is clear and direct. If I painted my wall pink yesterday, today I see pink wall. I will never have pink wall if I just wish and pray to have pink wall. Wish and pray must be transformed into real action. No one can or will do it for you. You are the only one who will change your condition. It's your decision and responsibility to do that.

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